So.. What do you do when you get stuck?
Do you sit back and mourn your lack of action ..Think of inventive ways to over come your situation?. Or Just wait – thinking that this too shall pass!.
We all have our own solutions to dealing with stuck moments. Some would slow down, blow off some steam.. or if you’re like me, you would go off to sleep!.
And then .. What do you do?
You DON’T give up!.
You come back to the table .. Pore over your shitty first drafts.. Move ahead bit by bit..
Because big changes don’t happen in a instant. Corporations are not successful overnight. Trust is not built in a day. It’s a gradual process. The only difference is that you notice it suddenly.. And people start talking about it suddenly..
In this age of instant gratification, it is easy to think that you will get results immediately. And also get frustrated when you don’t.
Like Alice in Wonderland, we cant wait to reap the benefits of our efforts – “No, no! The adventures first, explanations take such a dreadful time.” !!
But in real world, you have to take it step by step.. Bird by bird ..A metaphor used by Anne Lamott. She narrates this beautiful story in her book:
“Thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he’d had three months to write. It was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books on birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Then my father sat down beside him, put his arm around my brother’s shoulder, and said, ‘Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.’
Then again. What do you do when you get stuck?
You come back. Pick up all the fragments piece by piece. Slowly build it again – bird by bird!